"An appreciation of real merit and worth, steadfastness of soul, that without bitterness or defeat we may encounter misfortune and with humility meet success..."
-from The Symphony of Alpha Xi Delta
These words are from The Symphony of Alpha Xi Delta, a beautiful sisterhood of women that I was fortunate enough to be initiated into at the University of Northern Iowa in the fall of 1997. These words have echoed in my mind a lot throughout this year.
The wonderful thing about pageantry is that it is a big sisterhood. Through my reign as Mrs. Iowa International, I have made many new connections with amazing women who aspire to make the world a better place. They are cheerleaders for each other and are bonded by common goals and aspirations. This sisterhood draws such a parallel with my Greek sisterhood from college--I think in many ways, this helped me feel more at home during competition week, when every step was so new.
I had the opportunity to connect with my Alpha Xi Delta sisters at our chapter's 50th anniversary celebration earlier this year. Along with that, my Mrs. Iowa travels brought me closer to a sister that I hadn't seen for years prior. We all shared laughter, stories and memories that seemed like yesterday. I had the honor of meeting sisters from years before my time at UNI and the privilege of hearing the special announcement that earlier that evening, our keynote speaker was just tapped to be our next National President. I was really able to reflect on how Alpha Xi Delta has impacted women's lives and my journey thus far.
"Foster intellectual, professional and personal growth, exemplify the highest ethical conduct, instill community responsibility..."
-from The Mission of Alpha Xi Delta
It was not my destiny to come home with the title of Mrs. International. But that's OK! During the competition and after, it is understandable that emotions run high. But the words of The Symphony kept running through my mind--even if I encountered misfortune, I would keep my integrity and head held high. As women and sisters we should celebrate and empower one another! Thank you, Alpha Xi Delta, for doing just that!
As my year as Mrs. Iowa International gets closer to its end, I can look back and say that I have grown personally, conducted myself in an ethical manner and have helped to instill community responsibility by encouraging volunteerism and civic engagement through my platform work. This is success and I am humbled to have gotten to serve in this capacity! I have gained new sisters in pageantry, but owe much gratitude to the sisterhood of Alpha Xi Delta.
Thank you for continually inspiring me to reach my potential!
Cheers!
Be the Change. Be the Light. #ServeLoveVolunteer
Jill
Mrs. Iowa International 2015
